What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 08:28

Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
39~ What are your love languages?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
What transforms the philosophical intellect?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) đ
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
How do I study with focus and concentration and avoid distractions and procrastination?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
6- Whatâs your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
What caused North Korea to go poor when at first it was rich?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
I would allow you to do it⌠What would you do to me?
18- Whatâs your favorite way to relax after a long day? Whatâs your least favorite?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
52~ Are you willing to make âthose typesâ of bets with your partner?
Who are the archers in Genesis 49:23?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
29- How superstitious are you?
Any that are a turn off?
Japanese culture: Is it true adult adoption is common in Japan?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
What was your first trans experience like?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
Why are there so many single moms in America?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
19~ Who/when was your first âheartbreakâ?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end⌠:-) some funny, some notâŚ
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
What is the most ridiculous obviously false verse in the Bible?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
5- Whatâs your favorite movie genre? Whatâs your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
How do I overcome attachment issues?
20- Whatâs your favorite candy? Whatâs your least favorite?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3âŚ
What kind of person makes you think "how come there are people like that"?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
85~ If you gave me a âfree Passâ to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
Do all therapists specialize in one specific type of therapy, or are they trained in multiple types?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
3- What was the most surprising thing youâve learned about me throughout our relationship?
4- Whatâs your favorite genre of music? Whatâs your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
How old are you? Male or Female?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
12- Whatâs your favorite food? Whatâs your least favorite?
Do you prefer your partnerâs pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
18~ Who/when was your first âcrushâ?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past⌠it got you two here togetherâŚ
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
85~ If I gave you a âFree Passâ for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
66~ Whatâs the shortest time itâs ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
*** Random Questions ***
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can âPASSâ and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship⌠You can learn a lot about the other person⌠and yourselfâŚ
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
14- Do you have a âDeal Breakerâ, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
14~ When was the first time you said, âI Love Youâ? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love LanguageÂŽ - The 5 Love LanguagesÂŽ
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
9- Is there something youâve always wanted to ask me but youâre afraid?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
16- Whatâs your favorite vacation you have been on? Whatâs your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
What is your favorite position? Why?
16~ Do you believe in âsoulmatesâ? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
Nothing too Serious
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the momentâŚ
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couplesâ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETCâŚ)
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
15~ Have you ever been âin loveâ? Who? Care to Share?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Any that are a turn off?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
3- Whatâs your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? Whatâs your least favorite?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
Would you read them together?
*** Questions About Me ***
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
52~ What are your hobbies?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
*** Whatâs Your FavoriteâŚ? ***
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
The Ice Breaker Questions
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything⌠Shave meâŚ
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
9- Whatâs your favorite season and why? Whatâs your least favorite?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
10- What is your favorite family tradition? Whatâs your least favorite?
Whatâs the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
40~ Whatâs the weirdest place youâve ever had sex?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
2- Whatâs your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Donât be shy now, I really want to know.
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
13- Whatâs your favorite drink? Whatâs your least favorite?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
1- Whatâs your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
14 â Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
42~ Whatâs your biggest regret in life?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
17- Whatâs your favorite holiday? Whatâs your least favorite?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
If you win, what will you make them do?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
92~ Everyone needs a âsafeâ word. What is yours?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
19- Whatâs your favorite fairytale? Whatâs your least favorite?
7- Whatâs your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
1- Whatâs your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
Do you like the â69â position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJâs when you are sleeping?
65~ Describe the best orgasm youâve ever had? Care to share?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
Please share Did you stop?
How many times do you think you have âmade loveâ?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
If yes, what?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
Family Relation Age Play